Few episodes ago with iConfessions I started my shift by opening my facebook account. Usa sa ni pop-up nga message sa akong inbox kay gikan sa uas ka babae nga listener nato nga nangutana kung naka cheat ba siya sa iyang new boyfriend by still thinking most of the time sa iyang ex.
Upfront I replied to her nga I cannot give you a specific *“yes or no if you are about to or have cheated on your new boyfriend”* simply because this is a case to case basis situation and I don’t want to give false opinion due to of lack information about your story. Generally having times of still thinking about your ex (unsa kaha ang iyang gibuhat karun? Nikaon na ba kaha siya? Wa ba kaha siya nabasa sa ulan?) you are about to poison your new relationship and it will be unfair to the new guy in your life.
Mga idol before ta mosulod og bagong relasyon; it is a must nga naka-accept na ta sa reyalidad sa atong previous relationship. Dapat dawat nato nga humana ang past lovestory and we need spend time to process the moving on stage from our ex.
Sad reality is kasagaran sa atoa ilabina sa mga batan-on karun dali kaayo maka ikid nga mangita og lain nga uyabon to compensate sa kasakit nga na feel after the breakup. This action; by all means is not actually helping you, instead it will bring you into confusions kay nigamit ka og wrong tool for you to try not to think about your ex.
To end our conversation I told her; nga kinahanglan siya mo-accept ug mo move-on una sa iyang ex boyfriend bago mosulod og lain na pud nga relasyon. We need to be fair to our partner and lover by giving them the undivided love that they deserve. Lastly take note that it’s not the quantity of your romantic encounters that will make you happy but it is the quality that really matters.
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